Wedding tips for a peaceful wedding experience:

What a fabulous time for you and yes, wedding preparations can be stressful, hectic and emotional, but you can still sail through it and enjoy the experience if you choose. Before you know it everything will be just a memory so make sure your memory will be one of having been calm and peaceful throughout the entire process, with joy and light-heartedness as your motto.

To remain focused and balanced throughout the day you will find a technique called "grounding" very helpful. Just like electricity needs to be grounded, so your energy needs to be as well. One technique of grounding is to imagine yourself lying on the grass in some beautiful, peaceful place connecting with Mother Earth. Another way to remain calm is to imagine yourself in a beautiful bubble sitting in the lap of a magnificent, beautiful Angel. She has one of her hands on your forehead to calm down your thoughts and to replace them with God's love. The other hand is placed on your heart to calm down your feeling and send God's love into your heart. Use this image often to keep yourself centered and peaceful.

Be very careful what you put your attention and emotion to for that is what you are giving energy to create. When you are aware that you are stressing or worrying about something, stop, and center or become peaceful by thinking of something that makes you feel happy. Next go into your mind and imagine with lots of feeling what you would like to experience. You see you are then switching from feeding energy to what you fear or don't want to giving the creative energy to what you do want. It is the magic of creation and manifestation of every area of your life.

Try going into your mind and living through each detail leading up to the wedding and the wedding day itself. First become peaceful and go within, then go through the events and notice anything that might not go according to plan. When you are finished, write down these things, then go back into that peaceful place and feel with lots of feeling that you are really there and all events go according to your desires. Keep going within often and living your dream.

One last tip: imagine the wedding is over and you are relaxed and watching the video reminiscing and wishing you could relive the day being more relaxed. Feel like you are being given a special privilege by getting to live through this wondrous day again with deeper appreciation and joy.

Create Joy,

Reverend Deborah Young